Matured and Immatured Love !

💐Immature And Mature Love💐

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Immature love is all natural and truest . Why is it the truest I my sense ? Yes, because , it is completely blind and uncounted . Yes ,totally unknown with the worldly patches and material rhythm of this world and life . Mature love is quite counted because it seeks security of life and under indirect calculations,yes ,negative and positive . Thus, it’s love but worldly heighten love that expects all worldly amenities while immature love is divine with zero desire and utmost desire is only wanting and wanting her or him boved’s love and love only . Yes,in it there is no worry,no care of any kind of happening-positive or negative ,yes, whatever the result ,yes ,all accepted with divine heights.

The mature love is truer but at the condition . And love is conditional, ah,it doesn’t remain trust . It can be said truer in worldly sense not love sebse. Love is defined when two opposite genders attract to each other whether with physically or heartily . Physically means worldly ,yeah, all conditional from both the bodies and mind . And heartily means all naturally and unconditional from both the souls not bodies . Worldly conceptional love is selfish while Natural Love is unselfish or selfless . Immature love that happens all natural with bosom while mature love not happened but it is done with the mind .

 

💐**Immature Love Episode**💐

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There was a young man .Yes ,so handsome in looks . He was also from an elite family . He was from highly educated family. He chose teaching job for the career . He was only 23 at the time . Apart from school teaching job, he chose so called “Lipstick of Teacher’s Lips” { in Hindi phrase – Lali of Honthh} or cheek’s golden or crimson glow. Yeah , the tuition job for extra income . Under his tuition job a dozen of students had come to take tuition from that teacher. In a batch of the girls, a girl of class 10 th whose age was only 17 fell in love and the love traffic was not one way . Yes both the genders were matched heartily and mentally and felt made for each other .The Indian Cupid was heavy in the young man’s mind and it was naturally the pretty lover of him was too Ratiik (curious for mating with her smart lover ) yes to meet bodily to be one soul . And under passion they touched height . And the situation arrived as the ending of bollywood romantic movie in which after love the story ends in marriage. The girl’s father and family were ready but young man’s father was not agreed for the relation . The young man ,yes, the son tried a lot to convinced his dad but he was dead .He convinced his mother but the Indian society is male dominance so she was hrlpless to support him and not dared to make agreed to her husband. The young man’s father was inanimate or like rock that he didn’t nod . Why did he not agree ? Yes, because of his high social status . He was a gazetted officer . And the girl’s father was a petty clerk though both were the government servant but the dignity point of view unmatched . The other reason, she was of their same caste but not confirmed though her sarname was the same . But she was from other state and at the time not considerable to marry the son or daughter so far and an unknown family. Why , because of social frowns or reactions. So the character of Moghal-E-Azam,yes Shehanshah Akabar denied his son Saleem not to marry with that girl who isn’t matched for the reputed dynasty and Emperor of India . The dad was so conservative despite highly education and so modern in dressing and viewing and aptitude. But we know ,the man has two faces -one for him ,second for other . If mind the famous movie Pakeezah of film star Rajkumar and star actress Meena Kumari . In which a son loved a woman and married but the grandpa ,the supremo of the dynasty shot his son . So in social system and status height death is accepted or considered liable but not the marriage relation .

 

But love is love and that young man became rebel against his rigid father. And he tied in the nuptial knot with her as love marriage but under all Hindu ritual heights and rites. Yes , no family member from youngman’s side came in the ceremony but the bride’s family was there with full enthusiasm and support.

 

But ah , after 20 years of marriage relation and two beautiful children of their love or passion the bride started growling with material workdly deficiencies. And now wife started complaining and annoyance. She often brawled with her husband because husband renained no lover. She insulted, abused and used to say foolish-I chose this man without thinking . I did love marriage. But that wasn’t love,that was innocent decision and fault. That was my great mistake . It was immature love and I am repenting on my decision . And amazing ,stunning result, ah -DIVORCE . And the relation broken for ever. Both ones remarried to other man and woman. Thus children suffered abruptly. But they got new father . Other side that youngman now 45 owned two children with his new wife. Thus it’s clear that the mature love isn’t a true love.

 

💐The Second Love Saga 💐

 

Yes,a beautiful girl of sweet fourteen. She fell in love with a beau. The handsome man ‘s age was surprising that he was 39 . At first the love was one sided from the sweety and the man was unaware from her wanting. Then the situation exposed and he too obsessed to her . It was true love ,yes from the sweet belle. She was a bud and of teen aged . And the man who was the priest of beauty . And its well said -If the man has a flower in his hand ,naturally before withering he won’t throw that it and would enjoy its fragrance by smelling. And a wise and prudent man will not throw flower after withering .He will make it nectar yeah Gulland (rotten flowers’ jam including sugar) . I mean it’s a common and general truth that man is avarice in this sense that if female attracted to him he at once melted and slipped easily . But this handsome was 39 and married and had children .So he was not thirsty for the lust.

 

Yeah, their love heightened. The love was at truest from both the side .Yes, all selfless and not erotic. The gravity between both the lovers were like divinity or sky . But suddenly the love of the mistress became mature .Yes, after 21 years of age and 7 years honey like romance . Why did she get mature . And mature means worldly calculation . Her lover was already married and had children . The extra marital affair uncovered. The spouse of her lover known all and requested -Please do not break my house . Please do not break ,spoil my house ,my family.

I pray you .

 

I have heard from you that you are going to marry with my husband ” He is totally madden for you, with you . Please for the sake of Almighty ,leave him . I know -he won’t leave you. I am his wife .Ours marriage was arranged and you are his lover and so SWEETHEART. In this birth he is mine as the husband .I respect your love . In the next birth he will be yours and yours only.

 

And thinking a lot ,replacing herself on her lover’s wife she understood the critical situation and with heaviest heart decided to separate from him. Against hostile circumstances she was in dilemma. Finally unwillingly she decided to leave her lover.

But with last meeting with heart touching emotions -she weeps in her lover’s arm .She says everything that happened with her before his wife. She says, I don’t want to lose you . But i heard cry of your wife . I put myself at her place and felt tragedy of that wife . So with heavy heart I do say goobye to you but heartily you are and ever will be mine in my heart and I will meet you, yeah we will meet in the next birth or in heaven as lovers and life partners for each birth. Then the lover says-okay ,my darling . We are helpless with the tradition of this world but ours love isn’t . Without meeting we can meet always in views,in memories . And this is treacherous world my sweet heart . So for the world please marry a person to run this life .She says -O my love, only social contract could be possible after it and you say for running life ,no at this situation life can not be run,only could be dragging because my life is yours . Lastly I say ,please formally forget me and give all pleasures to your wife as you would have had given before ours tie .

**NK Sevak ” Sanatan”